For the way they make you feel.

What good would it do you when you keep on pretending to be someone else you’re not?

what is so worthy that you would be willing to lose your true self for?

I think you should know that those people who fell for the fake you, are not worth your time anyway.

They pushed you into being someone else you’re not. I don’t call these people friends!

Find yourself a bunch of people whom you feel comfortable with, love having them around, people that you know will always take you for who you REALLY are.

 

friendship is all about acceptance.

About being able to love oneself, always. And if you didn’t for a while, you will find someone who will make you.

Friendship is about being comfortably crazy around someone.

It is also about the things they willingly do for us with no questions asked, and no consequences mentioned.

 

And it’s never about the years..

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An insight through my head.

No matter how dark it might get, I still hope for better.

I still wait for the best to come.

They call me optimistic, I think I’m just being practical. I’m being the way everyone should be.

 

I’m not sure how to explain that, but I do believe everything has two sides, I chose to look at the less painful.

I chose to look at the one that will get me through another day.

I have to get through another day anyway, don’t I?

So why not do it with a little bit of hope, even if that bit was crushed the very next day. SO WHAT!

I don’t expect everything to go as planned, smooth and simple. But I do wish they do. And there is NOTHING wrong with that.

 

I’m still hopeful on so many levels.

I’ve seen nothing good out of love but I still look forward to my magical proposal.

I’ve seen so many bad turns on the road of friendship, but I still believe I will have one or two friends by my side forever and always.

I’ve had my screws up academic-wise, but I still dream about a very high profile job.

 

who cares what happened yesterday, who gives a shit?

You still have today, and if god wills, you will have tomorrow.

Someone tripped me last night, I’m sure someone will also pick me up today.

That’s the beauty of life; being able to see all the good through the bad.

 

It takes courage to believe, it takes so much to see through..

And my advice to you, you should try and do it, sometime. just freaking try.

When people leave..

Ever since I was a child, this temperament was clear. While other children in preschool could easily recover once their parents left, I could not. My tears, once set in motion, did not stop easily. As I grew up, I learned to become attached to everything around me. From the time I was in first grade, I needed a best friend. As I got older, any fall-out with a friend shattered me. I couldn’t let go of anything. People, places, events, photographs, moments—even outcomes became objects of strong attachment. If things didn’t work out the way I wanted or imagined they should, I was devastated. And disappointment for me wasn’t an ordinary emotion. It was catastrophic. Once let down, I never fully recovered. I could never forget, and the break never mended. Like a glass vase that you place on the edge of a table, once broken, the pieces never quite fit again.

But the problem wasn’t with the vase. Or even that the vases kept breaking. The problem was that I kept putting them on the edge of tables. Through my attachments, I was dependent on my relationships to fulfill my needs. I allowed those relationships to define my happiness or my sadness, my fulfillment or my emptiness, my security, and even my self-worth. And so, like the vase placed where it will inevitably fall, through those dependencies I set myself up for disappointment. I set myself up to be broken. And that’s exactly what I found: one disappointment, one break after another.

But the people who broke me were not to blame any more than gravity can be blamed for breaking the vase. We can’t blame the laws of physics when a twig snaps because we leaned on it for support. The twig was never created to carry us

There is a crucial lesson in this verse: that there is only one handhold that never breaks. There is only one place where we can lay our dependencies. There is only one relationship that should define our self-worth and only one source from which to seek our ultimate happiness, fulfillment, and security. That place is God.

The whole post is copied, you can check the rest of the article here : http://www.yasminmogahed.com/2011/11/13/why-do-people-have-to-leave-each-other/

Day ONE.

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Make it a good day, feel good about something you could do today.

Make someone smile today.

A random act of kindness is never harmful  : )

 

If I had the chance I would put on my hoodie and go out for a walk, and on my way home, I would make someone on the street happy, maybe a kid or something.

If you have the chance to do so, make it happen 🙂

 

And this is not a new year thing or anything, it’s just that I have taken the opportunity to feel brand-new. A new start.