A deja vu for me ..

A possible scenario that came to my mind last night, that I didn’t want to keep to myself:  you’re 16-17 years, you’ve just finished your high school, you’re going to college. But to your surprise it’s different than the one your best friends are going to. You were separated. You make promises that you’ll stay in touch, and still hang out every now and then etc…

but then life gets in the way, you’re so busy with college and studying, you’ve made new friends, a very new environment. So gradually you start prioritizing your new college friends over your old school buddies thinking they would understand. it’s getting worse by time

And now one of you both, is holding onto this friendship more than the other. one of you starts fighting more for the other. I know that we all fight for our friends (of course if we want to). we try our best to stick around, but then comes a point where someone doesn’t care anymore, a point where someone feels like all their fighting goes in vain! like they’re holding on to something that can’t wait to be set free, that’s pulling the opposite way.

So if that is happening with you, I think you should keep fighting a little bit more, and before you totally give up once and for all, try having a little chit chat. like a wake up call, showing them that they matter.
And even if nothing changed afterwards, when you get old, you’ll look back and know that it wasn’t your fault!
you’ll have a reason and a story to tell your child, you’ll have an ending, not the one you wished for I know but at least you’ll know you’ve tried and it just didn’t work out!

And maybe just maybe later on you’ll thank them for giving you the space to find someone new, someone better. Not that they were bad or anything, but the chance to find someone that can adjust with the new changes in your life!

So dear friends, always know deep in you heart, that there’s a reason people from your past didn’t make it to your future. And at the end, those true friends we’ve lost, will always have a place in our heart, where they’ve left their footprints,  because whether you want to admit it or not; I’m sure they’ve affected you in a way or another…

And I’m sorry If I brought any bad memories, I just needed to tell everyone that it’s okay! We lose many good people along the way everyday .. I myself, know that I’ve lost some …

*hug and a pat on the shoulder* (:

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5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Esraa Farrag Ali
    Sep 18, 2011 @ 01:31:41

    But it’s hurting, the idea of losing people you never thought you’d lose them one day. I know “that’s life” thing but still =/

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    • Noha Ahmed
      Sep 18, 2011 @ 02:04:01

      yeah tell me about it!!

      bas it passes wallahi 🙂 dah by7sal and sometimes you can’t stop it, it happens, you freeze for a while. bas b3d kda you go out there and you meet new people and it gets better =)

      Reply

  2. Ahmed Nabih
    Sep 18, 2011 @ 04:24:31

    I have a cousin who would relate to this story perfectly. But she and her best friend managed to get over it and find middle grounds =) They were too close to end their friendship but they managed, it could be a little or so much different from what it was before. But they’re happy with how it ended up =)

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  3. Esraa Farrag
    Sep 18, 2011 @ 04:58:02

    Actually I passed through that same story! my best friend and i were about to end our friendship but we managed to be normal friends now, who ask about each other from now and then! actually i consider this a loss, i lost my best friend =/

    Reply

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